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The Remarkable Family of Tandy and Grace Brown

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From Mike

 Season’s greetings from Mike & Nanette in Cheyenne.  We hope your year was as blessed as ours.  We started with a long overdue return to Hawaii to see our old haunts.  We had a great few days on Oahu’s North Shore at the Turtle Bay Resort, followed by a stay in Honolulu near Waikiki Beach.  We were stunned to see how much it had grown – all high rises and concrete.  The area around the beach was so overgrown that we recognized very little.  We visited our former home and it too was completely different.  As they say, you can’t go back.  In August we took a trip to Alaska to visit our Grandson, Michael (Amy’s eldest).  We began with a cruise from Vancouver to Anchorage.  Shortly after the cruise began we received a call from Michael that he was now the father of a beautiful baby girl named Katy Rose.  We arrived in Anchorage, where they live, shortly after Katy Rose and her mom, Amanda, came home from the hospital.  We had five great days getting to know Katy Rose.  Sadly, Nanette came down with a cold so I was forced to do the spoiling for both of us.  I must say I did a great job!!!

The rest of the year was spent enjoying retirement, although with volunteering and chores we had little idle time.  We are now preparing to celebrate our 52nd wedding anniversary on November 25th.  However, there was some sadness mixed in, with the death of my brother Frank.  He was 90 and a decorated veteran of the Pacific campaign during WW II.  He was the first of the four Brown brothers (Charles, Dick and Mike) that served in the Marine Corps and the reason we never considered any other branch of service.

Bill’s eldest, Joey, has relocated to Kansas with his wife, Vanessa, and daughter, Makenzie.  Bill’s daughter, Becca, graduated from high school and moved to West Virginia to attend college.  His youngest, Cody, is a high school sophomore in Storey, Iowa, and just finished playing on its football team.  All of them are doing well.

Amy and her family are here in Cheyenne.  She is working at an elementary school as a paraprofessional.  Her husband, Scott, is a civilian employee at Warren Air Force Base and narrowly missed the recent layoffs many others suffered.  Her daughter, Megan, is a high school senior and was recently awarded a prize for a tea pot she made in art class.  It is on display in the Wyoming Governor’s Residence.  She also is a manager at Dairy Queen.  All three of them are enjoying their new roles as grandparents and aunt, but are quite sad that Katy Rose (and Michael & Amanda) are so far away.

Katy’s son, Marcus, is also a high school senior in Cheyenne.  He enjoys his  sports – water skiing, softball, soccer, etc. along with working at a local Yamaha dealership.

Jeni and her family are also in Cheyenne.  Jeni works for a local fireplace dealer.  Her husband, Sean, is a foreman for a roofing contractor.  Her eldest, Brandi, is a high school junior and working at Wendy’s.  Her son, Destin, is a sophomore, and just began driving (look out Cheyenne).  Her youngest, Heather, is in 8th grade and, in her words, doing everything from band to sports.

We hope this letter finds you in good health and prosperity.  We wish you a merry Christmas and a very happy 2014.

From Joanne Jacka (Anna)

The Laundry Room – Casper 1944-45 (a chapter from my Memories book)

            In 1944, when I was 4, we moved to Casper Wyoming, moving into a big rectangular-shaped house with rounded corners. Beyond the main house were three other big rooms: a laundry room, a garage, and a workshop. The laundry room was sort of a catchall place for noisy machines. There was a hot-water heater with lots of burping pipes, a long table against the back wall, a freezer about 3’ high by 6’ long, and two big tubs with rollers on a swinging arm. Those tubs were for washing and rinsing clothes.  In the middle there was a wooded folding rack to hang things on when it was freezing out on the lines; an ironing board which was always set up; and all kinds of incidental and mysterious junk that I wasn’t allowed to get into (like Dad’s golf bag full of little white balls).

            The reason I remember the laundry room was that lots of scary things happened there. Once when I was sent to the freezer to get a roast for dinner, I stepped upon the little stepstool, forced open the latch, opened the heavy lid and reached in to retrieve some elk meat for dinner later on that day. Being 4 and small, I teetered a bit on my stomach and naturally fell in with only my legs holding open the lid to the freezer. I yelped loudly and soon mother came running to see what all the commotion was about. She lifted the freezer door, lifted me (and the roast still clutched in my hand) and sat us down on the floor. I think the scolding hurt worse than my legs, which were black and blue for weeks.

            Another time I (miss curiosity) decided that I would help mother with the wash. I’d watched her push the clothes through those rollers that grabbed them up and spit them out.  Those washing machines aren’t like the ones you have now girls; these were old-fashioned ones which sloshed water all over the floor. You might guess what happened next. I crawled up on the orange metal stool and fed a wet towel into the ringers (those rollers). It grabbed my arm and pulled me into it as well.  Screaming in pain I was again rescued and again learned the hard way that curiosity was a dangerous and painful thing to have.

            But there were good things that went on in that laundry room too. It had a place for jars of canned goods of tomato sauce and jellies. There were two stools and a small table for me to paint on when I got to use my water paints. And that is where I was allowed to help with the chickens. After Dad had beheaded two chickens and let them run around until they dropped, he’d bring them into the laundry room and put them on the little table – now covered with papers. They would put a big rubber apron on me (this was before plastics were invented) and after they put the bodies of the chickens into the pot of boiling water, they’d pluck out all the big feathers. Then it was my turn. Dad gave me a pair of pince-nosed pliers, sort of like a big tweezers, and I got to pluck out those little black tubes that had once held the feathers. I was very proud of that responsibility (at first). I didn’t realize that there were hundreds, maybe thousands of those little plugs that needed to be pulled out. But I persevered until the chicken was totally naked and ready to be washed and cooked.

            If you have never had home grown chicken, deep fried in Crisco in a heavy iron pan and then finished off in a slow warm oven, you haven’t lived. To this day, I’ve never had fried chicken that tasted that good. I do not know if it was the batter or the seasoned flour, or just the fact that it took so much work to get it from the henhouse through the laundry room to the dinner plate. But those memories, smells and tastes stay with me still, some 70 + years later.

From Joanne Jacka (Anna)

VISITS TO GRANDMA’S HOUSE

Once a year we’d step up on the running board of our old black Ford with winged windows and drive a long ways down the State to Grandma Brown’s house. Actually it was Grandpa’s too; as they’d bought their house back for $5,000 after the great depression had temporarily taken it away.

During his annual summer vacation Grandpa Brown would drag out the forest green paints, enlist all the grown children and they would slop paint all over the house (“to refresh it” he said.) But this day Grandma would be waiting for us on their huge veranda, rocking and knitting when we drove up. After hugs and drinks I would grab my suitcase and trudge up to the upper floor “girls” room while catching up with giggling cousins: Eileen, Sally & Donna.  When I was 10, my uncle Mike was 8 and my cousins & sisters Nicki & Kathi were 7,6,5,4, & 3.  Mother & Dad stayed over at Aunt Leah’s house, and the others came from all around. It was confusing to have so many aunts and uncles all talking at once, but you’d get used to it after awhile. After being patted on my blond locks and told how big I’d grown, we’d scamper off to the basement to explore the coal bins, or run across the street to the park or walk on the 6’ high block wall along the back of the house. Mike knew where there were always new things to explore, especially in Grandma’s garden.

Inside, as we climbed up the tall crooked steps to the kid’s rooms (and the only bathroom) we’d pass the huge iron tub with little feet and a step stool next to it; peek into the “boys” room (off limits to us girls) and settle into an enormous room with 5 beds. They were almost side-to- side with the smaller beds (more like cots) down at the end near the attic entrance. The small door to the attic had roped clotheslines where all the girls clothing drooped on hangers. We climbed up on the big beds to peer out the clearstory windows, but saw nothing but trees and an occasional squirrel. We’d jump and flop and toss pillow back and forth till exhausted, and would later be awakened for meals. Down those crooked, steep stairs we’d slowly tromp, one step at a time – holding onto the wall for fear of falling. While we were all fairly little, all the adults were big and I wondered at the time how they fit going up and down that curving stairwell.

         At the bottom was a hallway with a door to the coal basement (always locked). Back down the hall were 3 rooms, an old nursery with 3 cribs in it (for grand babies now), the grandparents’ room with a bed so big that you had to squeeze around it just to get to the one side of the bed. And a very special room which in the old days was probably a bedroom, but now was a room full of boxes, junk, sewing machines, ironing board and working tables. An original “all-purpose room. This is the room where you went when you needed some quiet from all of the uproar. One time when I had rescued my 8” storybook doll from my little sisters, my grandma sat me down on a bench and began to make it a doll dress. She crocheted in powder blue, the loveliest little dress I’d ever seen, whipping her hands so fast that you’d think it was a machine. In no time at all while she listened to me intently, finishing the doll dress complete with loops for buttons. She pointed to a big bag of buttons and told me to get out two tiny ones and to sew them on myself. “I don’t know how,” I whispered. “You’ll figure it out” she said and was gone – back to the kitchen where the others were starting dinner. I’ll never forget how she listened with her eyes. It made me feel really special, like I was now part of her pack.

         The kitchen, back behind the living & dining rooms, had a huge breakfast table with benches on either side, 3 ovens, (wood, gas, electric), 2 refrigerators and a temporary island. The aroma from all those stoves was heavenly to say the least. Tall burly uncles wandered in sneaking a taste, the aunts patting them on their backsides and shooing them away. There was a pretty curtain around the big sink, which hid the bigger pots and as-sundry canning supplies. The refrigerators were stocked full of homemade goodies, which if they weren’t watching you could grab a coke or a muffin and scoot away.

         Beyond the kitchen was a small covered porch, formerly an outdoor entrance, but now converted to a laundry room with a toilet (for the boys). Grandma got tired of the boys always peeing into the bushes, so eventually Grandpa installed one of the smallest toilet’s I’d ever seen, not that I’d seen all that many. Grandma’s washer also had rollers, which Uncle Mike, too, got his hand caught in, just like I had up in Casper.

         At bedtime, after communal baths, and totally exhausted, all of us girls would lie in the big beds – three at the top and three at the bottom (head to toe), and after the requisite pillow tossing, would fall asleep.  And, when we awoke the next morning, every bed was full. “  

Sometimes when we went down to the Grandparents house in Cheyenne Grandpa Brown would take us for long rides in the car. He drove it like it was the train he conducted - full speed ahead and everybody else look out! We once went to Aunt Vivian & Uncle Bob’s sugar beet farm - and it’s a wonder we all didn’t fall out of the back of the truck or get wounded on the tractors they let us ride on.  I’ll never forget the smell - a cloying yucky sweet smell - that permeated our clothes and hair.  But Aunt Vivian was a jewel - and so calm and quiet compared to her elder sister Anna - at least around us kids.  She too could cook like a dream - as all the Brown girls could.  After all they all lived through the great depression and all cooked from scratch (not these convenient box mixes that I’ve been lucky enough to help with my hopeless cooking skills).  At the Brown house, that huge rambling dark green two story Craftsman - complete with huge front porch, we kids had the run of the place.  There were two big bedrooms and a bath upstairs (the girls room and the boy’s room). We had lots of pillow fights and playful arguments.  They put us in bed like chess pieces - one head at the top, the next head at the bottom till there were 5 or 6 of us to a bed - with the blankets in the middle.  The stairwell (even then) was curved and the smallest stairway I’d ever seen.  I don’t know how the grownups got up and down those stairs. In those days there was only the one bathroom, although Grandpa built a toilet and sink off the laundry downstairs for the “boys” maybe in the early 50’s.  In the kitchen there were two huge stoves - a wood stove - where Grandma baked her pies, and an electric stove - where she cooked everything else.  At Thanksgiving or Christmas the aromas emanating from that kitchen were heavenly.  My favorite time was real early in the morning when only Grandpa and I were up - (early birds) and we would have Quaker Puffed Rice or Oats and berries and real cream from Great Grandmother Edam’s cows.  She lived in a huge boarding house just outside of town and had the scariest geese imaginable.  They would chase us kids and bite our legs till they bled.  Nasty creatures those geese!

On October 7, 2013, a memorial service was held for Frank at the First Presbyterian Church in Cheyenne, Wyoming.  A Marine Corps honor guard from Q Btry, 5/14 in Denver, Colorado, conducted military honors and presented a US Flag to Frank’s son Tandy.  The Reverend Bob Garrard, a long time family friend, presided  and many of Frank’s extended family were in attendance.

Following the service a lunch was served where many stories and memories of Frank were exchanged.  It was a beautiful occasion, one well deserved by our beloved Frank.

About Frank

From Nancy

Frank was a very special brother to me.  He looked out for me always and even corresponded to me by Vmail while in the Pacific during WW II.  I was called his little sister and loved him a lot.

Mother could not attend Frank and Marilyn’s wedding in Colorado Springs so I went there on a Greyhound Bus and met Leonard.  We were the family that took part in their wedding.  I was introduced to his college friends and had a great time.

I remember seeing the Western Union boy coming to the house with news from the Marine Corps about his injury suffered while directing a tank into battle.  He was calling to the driver while standing in the turret.  A Japanese soldier threw a grenade into the tank and it exploded in Frank’s back.  He spent months on a hospital ship and suffered for a long time in the hospital to get shrapnel removed.  There was never a complaint from him.  He served his country with great honor. 

 WHAT A HERO!!!

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